1. Your gains, are just that, yours. It is none of our business – and in this day-and-age, the fewer people know, the better you will be.
2. In your marriage/relationship there will be struggles — choose carefully who you share this with. Not all advice is good advice – and you never know what dark hole that advice is coming from – and in this day-and-age, the fewer people know, the better you will be.
3. Your opinions – even the ones that don’t affect others, should be shared judiciously. To vaccinate, not to vaccinate, to mask, not to mask, union, no union, etc. Keep it to yourself. At this point, we are not smart enough to disagree without being nasty and in this day-and-age the fewer people know, the better you will be.
I’ve come to the conclusion that we no longer know how to communicate with each other.